THE PAIN UNSPOKEN

" Pain is a distressing feeling often caused by intense or damaging stimuli. Because it is a complex, subjective phenomenon, defining pain has been a challenge."

This is what the Wikipedia says about pain. Ya, it's so true that describing pain is an ultimate challenge because we can never express the heartbreaks in just a word or a sequence of paragraphs. And this feeling of pain is understandable by only the person who has literally been through these painful, heart wrenching sessions.

So, if you are a person who really gets disappointed for someone getting hurt because of you and if the equation in your life is others happiness is proportional to your sacrifice, then this blog speaks to you.

Bringing happiness into others life can really take a toll on you. It's never suggested to live for others but if you are a person who gets happiness by making others happy, then the most eye wrecking situation in your life is others taking advantage of your sacrifice's to provide themselves with instant happiness, this can put you at stake. Destroying yourself for others happiness leaves you in the most painful, dark situation's from where no one can pull you out from than you yourself.

There are also times when you unintentionally give others pain, this kind of situation is the most dreadful phase of your life. You literally feel like killing yourself at times when you see others suffer because of the unintentional pain you have caused them.

The only way you can escape from this tragic circle of painful heartbreaks is by avoiding mutual happiness and instead cultivate a habit of keeping yourself happy in addition to keeping others happy.

So in this way you can keep others happy in addition to your happiness rather than sacrificing yours. Ensure that it is others happiness dependent on yours not the other way around.