Pretending to be someone else !!!!!!!!!


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Why should you try to be someone else ??
The answer is simple, you are never satisfied with your personality and inner beauty or sometimes it's the looks that matter to you than anything else.

Then comes the question Why you are never satisfied with yourself ?
It's only because of the lack of confidence in yourself.

Never lack your confidence as it's one of the important criteria in your life that helps us to live the life we want. Loosing confidence is equivalent to dying without oxygen.

Pretending to be someone else does not make you as perfect as them instead it totally destroys your identity as a whole.

Why we prefer being someone else in first place is because of their talents and their life that is shown happy from the cover, which is never true because they also have the same amount of sadness filled in their life as ours its just that their problems are different from ours. The perspective and handling of the situation the way the person whom we admire is what makes us attracted to their life and make us want to be that person. But just try it the way you want to , just pour your heart out, then you realise that you don't have to pretend to be someone else while you can solve everything better than others.

Even the society place a keen role in as to why we want to be someone else.

How is that so ??
It's a simple answer comparing our lives with someone more successful than us is how society gives their share of sadness to us.
From comparing to how well the other person have achieved in academics to the well paid jobs of the other person is what makes us so frustrated and at last end our life where you fear of comparisons with others at the cost of your happiness.

Just give a full stop to such comparisons and do what you want to do in your life and as far as society is concerned it can never be changed but still convince your dear ones about what's your aim in life.

Being yourself is what will make you comfortable than being in someone else's shoes.

So, Enjoy the way you are. Mainly believe in yourself and that's all matters.....

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